i totally get why maybe after 30 or 40 years couples get divorced. what is it that men think they don’t have to communicate? why may be should be the question. doesn’t remind of his schedule. doesn’t do anything about the house or the IRS or the debt or the driveway or money or OMG…….do i look like a freakin rock? or maid? OMG… i want to screammmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.