my world. it is better because i am coming to terms with choices….that mine are the only ones i am responsible for. that everyone else in my life or my spheres are given in to their own choices ~ and i must sit and listen and watch. for the most part my words have no influence what so ever on them. it is to be the work of the Holy Spirit that must move them. and i really know this now ~ deep inside of me. so when i hurt, it is my choice; when i am quiet, it is my choice; and i choose to live trying to listen to Christ and have Him in every part of me all the time.