most people don’t plan to fail, they fail to plan. i used this in class this week and i think it is true. but this week has been one that has minute after minute revealed how much of a failure i really am. and there is nothing i can do to redeem the failings i have made. so what to do with the fact that one has absolutely failed with children, finances, professional decisions, it seems like everything. i do not know. i really do not know.